Self-Esteem > Jealousy ?

   When someone's showing 'jealousy' signs, it only signifies how successful you are, as well as how they're trying too hard to be you. As a matter of fact, the reason that their intention is bad and their souls are sick they will never ever reach to your level, no matter how hard they would try.
   It sadness me to see these people crush themselves with such behavior. Have some mercy on yourself. Being jealous won't bring any benefit, it will keep on destroying you and your whole life and what ever you've been trying to build. I could only explain this behavior by linking 'jealousy' with having low self-esteem. So maybe instead of wasting time hating on people and envying them people should try working on their self-esteem!  
  
- Self-esteem:  
     it's always good to accept who you are. Observing the mistakes would help acknowledging where the weak points are, maybe these flaws are fixable! It always helps when a close friend is involved, the friend could listen maybe help as well stating opinions. Making mistakes is just natural, everyone made mistakes but then people move on, only the foolish repeats the same mistake, therefore learn from the mistake and move on. Now that you have recognized the mistakes, it's time to list the good points and the successes that you've achieved, then take sometime appreciating what you have. If someone compliments you accept it gracefully, don't be all cocky  about it, no one likes it. Look at the mirror for sometime and learn to love yourself. Help others, not to show off but because it will give you good feeling. Don't go bragging about  it to everyone otherwise you're a douche.
No one is perfect so never ever think you would reach perfect-ism, so cross that word from your dictionary and be humble.

There, a superb self-esteem built easily!! There are no more reasons to be jealous anymore, right?

When I first started writing this blog entry, I was pretty upset considering the fact that I learnt so much about so many people I never expected such behavior from, the style of what I wrote was pretty aggressive, nevertheless I won't bring down my level to these people. I'm going to kill them softly with kindness.... or an evil twisted way!  psst.. kill is a metaphor here

A wise person knows when to stop sharing knowledge with the surrounding. Sometimes, people poison you with what they have to share, but if your principles are strong you know when to talk and when to nod just to push them away, or to fool them by making them believe you agree. Being diplomatic is the key.

   Again, jealous would only harm the jealous person, the person is probably angry, furious and feeling threatened. Would you want to be known as that person?
Question : Why are you jealous of that? 
If you answer this question you might know the answer or the solution you crave for and then maybe your misery would be over? 
Everyone has a special quality about themselves, so don't worry if that person is better in 'A' then maybe you're better in 'B' !
One more point, never think that the world revolves around you, and only you. I mean everyone has that moment where everything revolves around them - or that's what they think -  but don't go over extending with that. Bragging and making everything sound is about you is only pathetic. 


'Live and let live!'

'What goes around comes back around'

Maybe these last two quotes would help further if the whole lecture that I wrote was useless.

I forgive you... maybe not! wait for your turn..


PS. if you think you're a jealous person and this post is about you be my guest to be the meant one. I mean.. don't come asking me if I mean you by this post or not, everyone know what they've done.