Friday, July 5, 2013
Buy a Personality!
Well, it would have been a long title if I wrote 'Here honey, take some money and buy a personality next time you want to go shopping' or something like that, get it?
So, this time I would like to write about these people, who have no personality at all. They move with the wind. It's very annoying to have such people in your life [ but good to laugh at ]. Pollution to the air we breath. No I'm not being mean, I'm just expressing about what bothers me and because such people do exist and they annoy me.
Basically, let me explain how this works. 'x' in your group has no personality, so when 'x' joins 'y' s\he pretends to like and dislike the same things but has no opinion of his\her own, and after a while s\he starts acting like 'y'. Then 'x' goes to 'z' and does the same with the likes and dislikes, starts talking the same. & the legacy goes on and on ...
WHY??
it's not really so hard to have mind of your own you know. You have no identification of yourself if you have no personality, and you're the most boring person ever then. it's like being a faceless person, who wants that eh?
Usually people who have no personality are the same ones who have no self-esteem.
Start believing that you're special in your own way, don't be scared to say what's in your mind or if you disagree with certain something, everyone's different.You don't need to be constantly guided by someone, have a say every now and then.
I know a lot of people who are like that, matter of fact is I stopped hanging around them or spending so much time with them because it gets boring and very annoying.
See, I have a problem. Due to certain situations that I've been through, I started liking people very less, and I don't get impressed easily or interested, and it's very hard to find someone who I really do enjoy talking to, give and take information etc.. Most of time I'm really quite. I observe people around me and decide who's worth talking to by listening to what they say. I try too hard to talk with anyone randomly but it doesn't work because they're either too fake and it's obvious therefore I don't waste time [maybe I would just listen to laugh at them later and thank god I'm not them] or they're people with no personality, agree to anything\everything change around people and try to please certain people for some reason. Too stupid.
Yeah back to the subject. Thinking of some people I know with no personality pisses me off badly.
I know, the solution is to face these people and tell them because they lack the awareness and they don't know that they behave in such way, but who am I kidding? People don't like if you confront them of something, mostly they would assume you're jealous of them, or something like that which is sad. In this phase of time people want to hear what pleases them not the honesty.
So yeah, no solution to those people. Say that I gave up, yes I did. I'm not bothered to try with anyone knowing that in the end I'll be the one mistaken and no appreciation would be there at all.
Staying away from such individuals is what I would do.
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